Top LGBTQ+ Spots & Events for Queer Women in New Orleans
In a cultural mecca like New Orleans, people from all walks of life can show up as they are and feel not only welcomed, but celebrated. You can dress up in costume any night of the week. You can listen to music that feeds your soul as much as the cuisine. In New Orleans, you can embrace every part of yourself – the adventurous, the romantic, the bawdy – and even discover new parts. The city is already home to a vibrant culture for queer women, so whenever you’re ready, here’s our guide to get you started.
A cozy gay dive bar located Uptown, QiQi serves delicious craft beers and offers daily happy hour specials. With the bar's rustic, unique decor and friendly bartenders, the scene is perfect for striking up a conversation with a local or friend. One of the only gay bars outside of the French Quarter, QiQi is a great place to go if you want a drink in a chill setting.
The Friendly Bar is a Marigny hot spot that’s perfect for a casual weeknight hangout or kicking off a girl’s night out. The bar’s gritty yet timeless style is half the reason we love it. The other half is that you can enjoy well-priced domestic beers and Friendly’s famous pudding shots as you mingle with locals.
A queer-owned wine bar nestled in the beautiful neighborhood of Bayou St. John, Swirl offers a wonderful selection of wines including reds, whites, blends, and sparkling wines to satiate any palate. Swirl serves small plates including veggie and cheese boards, but you can also order off the nearby 1000 Figs menu, which has some of the best Mediterranean-inspired cuisine in town. Swirl is home to a weekly Friday Night Wine School that gives you the opportunity to taste and learn about wines from around the world.
Pal’s is a woman-owned bar and has long been a staple of queer-femme life in New Orleans. On any given night, you're bound to sip shoulder-to-shoulder with a mostly local (and completely eclectic) crowd. You’ll find LGBTQ+ folks and allies drinking some of the city’s most interesting beer/shot combos until closing time.
Palm&Pine, located in the French Quarter, is a great place to stop for dinner and cocktails. On every third Thursday at 10 p.m., the restaurant hosts The Soiled Dove: PopUp Lesbian Bar. Enjoy drag performances and karaoke during this monthly hang. Check their Instagram for more details.
Her Haus typically hosts themed parties for queer women on the first Friday of the month in the upper part of The Bourbon Pub & Parade. Burlesque performers, go-go dancers, and DJs usually help get the party started. Expect additional events during Pride month with even more chances to party. Follow their Instagram for the latest.
Held at Cafe Istanbul and in locations across the city, this zodiac-inspired dance party is an infusion of soulful music, visual art, spiritual practices, and communal affirmation. Ascen.dance centers a safe and inclusive experience, welcoming all ethnic, gender, and sexual identities while centering Black and Brown cultures. A night at Ascen.dance will leave you feeling euphoric, celebrated, and inspired.
What started as a casual meet up for queer women returning to the city after Hurricane Katrina has evolved into one of the city’s most popular queer-specific dance parties. Opting not to adopt a static location, GrrlSpot stages large-scale takeovers of popular bars and performance venues through the city. Their monthly dance parties feature local queer entertainers and large, eclectic crowds. GrrlSpot’s biggest events of the year take place during Mardi Gras, Pride Weekend, and Southern Decadence. You can always find the next spot via GrrlSpot’s Instagram.
Blue Oak BBQ tops our list of inclusive eateries because of their efforts and outreach to the LGBTQ community. This Bayou St. John neighborhood joint will satisfy your BBQ cravings with everything from ribs to smoked turkey. Early birds can head over for a brisket croissant sandwich before they’re gone, but a wide selection of specialty sandwiches and BBQ plates are served all day.
Up&Adam Eatz is a Black and Queer-owned breakfast and brunch spot on Canal Street in Mid-City. Its picturesque location is the perfect backdrop for their uniquely-New Orleans menu items, like the Tchoupitoulas Omelet and Hollygrove Chicken Biscuit. Enjoy eating here, then hop on the streetcar for a day of exploring New Orleans.
The queer and woman-owned Alma is a Honduran restaurant in Mid-City. Executive Chef and owner Melissa Araujo is a 2024 James Beard Award Semifinalist for Best Chef South. Chef Melissa Araujo's Honduran heritage takes each guest on a journey through food and culture. Stop in for breakfast from daily, with menu items baleadas, pollo chuco, and pupusas taking center stage.
This queer and woman owned pop-up is simply a gathering with friends over wood-fired Neapolitan-style pizza. Typically operating on Monday and Tuesday nights, you can DM here for registration. Then, sit back and relax with natural wines and community vibes.
Take a two-hour deep dive into the joy, heartbreak, and history of the New Orleans Queer Underground from the 1850s to the present. Follow the stories of sex worker street gangs, drag queens working for the mafia, jazz artists, and the queer community of today to discover the ways the queer underbelly of New Orleans has shaped the history of the entire world.
Queer Run NOLA is a LGBTQ+ focused run/walk crew sponsored by Youth Run NOLA. Meetups are every second Sunday of the month. Join fellow sapphics in a walk or run through the city's best parks and public spaces. It's free to join and all about creating community.
There’s no party quite like Pride in New Orleans. Typically the second weekend in June, several events pop up including the Pride parade in the French Quarter. Black Pride Weekend is also celebrated in June, giving you even more reasons to visit during Pride Month. Check out our Ultimate Guide to Pride here to see what’s up.
Are you ready to yell “Stella!!” at the top of your lungs? Of course you are. But seriously, you can just that during the Stella and Stanley shouting contest at the Tennessee Williams Literary Festival. As one of the best literary fests in the country, you’ll connect with local artists, authors and musicians who share the same passion for creativity and the written word. The festival also features a spin off event, Saints + Sinners Literary Festival, which is dedicated to LGBTQ+ artists and LGBTQ+ literature.
LGBTLOL is the nation's premier queer comedy festival, celebrating inclusivity, intersectionality, and representation through stand-up comedy. The festival kicks off Pride Month and serves as both a celebration and a form of resistance through laughter. The multi-day festival takes place at locations across the city.
For years, the Southern Decadence weekend dance card was almost entirely filled with events for queer men. In 2011, GrrlSpot and friends changed that by creating a separate calendar of events, which came to be known as Dykeadance. While the lineup and location of Dykeadance’s events may be as fluid as everything else in NOLA, GrrlSpot’s party is always held on the Saturday of the festival weekend. Fleurt! combines beautiful venues and unique performances to create an experience that should be on everyone’s short list of must-sees for queer women in the South. Check out our Ultimate Guide to Southern Decadence here.
Family-friendly and lots of fun, this parade takes over the French Quarter every year on Easter Sunday. Enjoy seasonal throws, plus walking and marching groups celebrating all things Easter.
One of New Orleans’ most legendary Halloween events also benefits a cause near and dear to the city. Halloween New Orleans (HNO) is an LGBTQ Halloween extravaganza that lasts all weekend long and has been known to host some of the city’s most epic parties. In its 40+ years, the event has raised over $5 million for its host charity, Project Lazarus, an assisted-living home for those suffering with HIV/AIDS. Between the Queen’s Ball, the costume/dance party, and the tea dance and second line, you won’t want to miss one spooky, sparkly moment.
